The way we engage in debate with others can either erode intimacy or create it. There are a few keys to making it the latter...

If you find the idea of intimacy to be scary, this video will bring you some relief. You'll start to see how easy building intimacy can be.

Intimacy is more nuanced than we often hear. You may know it's more than just sexual, but can you name the other types of intimacy?

Intimacy is often misunderstood, especially by men. Here are a few things that intimacy is *not*...

Men don't talk about intimacy, yet it's the key to success and happiness in all areas of life. So we're gonna talk about it...

Men aren't encouraged to develop intimate relationship skills, leaving us with a narrow, sexualized view of the word. There's way more to it

The worst "F-word" that men use is "fine". It causes way more pain and disconnection than the other one. I invite you to boldly be not fine.

Masculinity and intimacy are odd ... uh ... bedfellows. Most guys have an underdeveloped sense of - and set of skills for - true intimacy.

Connect Four seems like a simple game. But it might also be a brilliant doorway to what we crave the most...

Who is really behind that mask? And what is the mask actually protecting?

Sometimes the more we try, the worse it gets. What would it be like to aim your effort in the right direction - but do it without trying?

I am very clear about my personal values - they guide my life. And the value that sits at the very top of that list is this: Being a...

Ok. Guys do understand some types of boundaries. But go ahead ask a bunch of guys about their relationship boundaries. You might get a...

Fear is a go-to answer for men - except it's a silent answer that we rarely acknowledge. That is not good.

Why do so many men stop trying to make new friends? Because it's not as easy as it seems. But it isn't actually that hard, either...

It's counter intuitive, but heartbreak is one of the most important experiences men can go through for accessing love.

[Warning: This post contains terms that are offensive to most people. I do not condone their use - nor any other means of denigrating...

Exploring the links between masculinity, love, and loneliness.

Every year it happens. Sometimes earlier, and sometimes later. In several seasons recently, I've been blessed for it to end in the best...

A divorced dad tells his story of getting help and using his values to create a memorable (and positive) experience with his teenage kids.